Wooo (o_O)

Wow its been a long time since i have blogged. A lot of changed have happened in the last couple months actually that might shock some of you!!
1. I'm single
2. I lost and am loosing mad weight
3. I finally accept and fully committed to my accounting major
4. I don't own Ferrah anymore
5. I'm happy with everything I've decided

So anyways i do plan on starting to blog again, slowly and surly. I know Ive been super slacking and its not good but I'M BACK haha :) and things should get really interesting now that i am on my own 100%


are you my future puppy?

This was the ad picture that caught my eye when i was looking for Ferrah. :) Thank you Karen for blessing me for that lil fur ball shes so precious and we love her soo much!!



my husky is starting to look like a husky


Blogger Oh Blogger

I havent Blogged in a LONG time. But i have a good reason. After having my baby and trying my best to potty train her in the past two weeks has taken my 24 hour attention. Training her has really not been that difficult and its only been two weeks. My furball is already going to the door to tell me she has to take a piss. She is such a smart girl and i feel blessed to have her campaignionship. She also knows "come Ferrah", she loves hearing "Good girl" and also "Sit" on comand. i have no doubt that she is going to be an excellent dog. We can already let her off the leash and she follows me around everywhere. She loves her mommy :) and i love my baby!!!

She is growing so quickly, i just want her to stay small and cute. I know that she is going to be such a beauty when she grows up though. Her face markings seems to change daily i can wait to see what color she will end up being. She is going to have her second round of shots soon, probably next monday. She will also be meeting Kujo this weekend.

Abby and I have started working out together. I am actually kind of happy because she is self driven and serious about what she does and puts her mind to. I agree that she is already in extra awesome shape but i cant change her mind set is she isnt satisfied. I think we are set up for sucess though if we can follow through and stay commited.

I went to my advising appointment today and even though i am well over the required gpa they told me i couldnt register for my summer classes till my grades are posted come mid MAY. Which sucks because id like to have class in the afternoons, which i doubt will happen let alone i may not get the classes i need if they are all filled up. I will be REALLY angry then though and I WILL get over rides into the FULL CLASSES... FUCK THEM im the one paying for it.

Ive lostt a total of 5 lbs since weve gotten Ferrah because im constantly up and about running after her. Getting a dog was the best decision i have made in a long time. I cant wait to see where i am in the next year. i REALLY have become more confident in myself and gotten more serious about life since ive gotten ferrah. She has really motivated me to get through the tough and do the right things!! i love her to death!! :)



Sunny Friday, 26th of March... It was the first day i got to meet her.
She was the most playful of the bunch, ready to say hello and play, I knew that she was the one.
I anticipated every moment till the moment that i arrived that sunny day in NC. In hopes to find a life long friend and new member to my lovely growing family. I knew the moment i felt her that she was the one.

She is the cutest pup that i have ever seen. She is gorgeous down to her itty bitty toes. All white with the slightest hints of orange, glass blue eyes and a black racing strip down her back. When she looked me in the eyes i knew that she was the one.

Clumsy paws, long strong legs, wiggly little tail, and build of a true working dog, she is the strongest little pup I've ever seen. Quick to learn right from wrong, when i held her in my arms with out a doubt she was the one.

She came to me, she came to me with out the slightest idea what a leash was or how to walk on it. The first few steps she made with my lead i knew that she'd be my best friend for life.

I know that you don't know it yet Ferrah, but i love you like you are my baby... and ill never do anything to harm you baby :) I cant wait to see you succeed and be the best dog that you can be!! Mama is cheering for you and encouraging you to do your best. Ill guide you and stay patient.. i know that we will butt head but hell, I know that your the one... Ive known since the moment i met you that you are going to be My first dog :)


monday great...

I feel like a yo-yo.


Today is the day for catch up!

Ill write a proper blog entry tonight, today will be the first productive day i have had since the weekend.


Happy St. Patties DAY!!

To think i got this far into making my calendar too...


shopping for fabric

At Joann Fabric and Craft Store
I give my shopping experience an A+



That's how i feel going through all my posts today... :)

I cant seem to get over this song...

Sara Bareilles - Gravity

Just as school today trying to finish up my project so that i can turn it in. Its extra credit but i might as well do it. I need the good grades this semester. I really need to study harder, even though i feel like that's all i really do. I plan to find a job over break. I hope its favorable. I went to the gym today for about an hour today. I feel okay about it. I really want to be in better shape, i hope that results are around the corner for me.

I probably look like I've made this computer into my personal work station (lamo)
Seriously i have my phone plugged in charging and my head phones in my ears. Water bottle in reach, I am here.

I wish blogger would step up their editing tools, its ridiculous how mediocre it is. I tried to switch over to LiveJournal but i couldnt figure that one out, plus im so far into blogger it would be detrimental what I've started.

Id like to add that i probably smell horrible, but i dont give a SHI___IAT


I thought You Should know

I plan to name my dog O'day-O'day
i cant wait to get our puppy, i feel like we are having a baby
No im joking, but i am excited to take the next step in this relationship with you!!
You really are all my dreams come true, because your making them come true

You are Loved

You'll never know why she is in love with him
What she sees when she looks at him
Where she has gone where she has been
To win over his attention
How many nights shes been lonely
longing for his holding
What she is thinking when he smiles
What she is feeling when he looks her in the eyes
You'll never really understand what she is willing to sacrifice
Just to be with him every single night
How her wishes are granted with the moments spent
and how all her dreams have changed and bent
You'll never know how much she really thinks about him
or how much happiness those thoughts bring
How those three precious words
changed the whole perception of what life was going towards


Aden likes Uncle Shaikhum more than Ami Massi



Thank You

Dear Pruthvi,

Yesterday you asked me if it was if it is bad to be worried about your friends so much?

Well prune, there isn't a day that goes by when i am not worrying about you. Honestly i have no doubt in my mind if you where the older one, i would have followed you like a goose with broken wings. Separating from you has probably been one of the hardest emotional things Ive had to cope with. I was so shocked when i heard you where leaving that i didnt even have the words to convey to you how much i was hurt. Its stressful not being able to drive over to see you, or share good times with you on my birthdays. Its harder not being able to cry to you or come to you for a hug. Days that are suppose to be spent with a friend go by lonely, on these days all I can think about is your laughing face. Ive always thought of you as my "first love". People don't realize it unless its genuine, but you love a bestfriend almost the same as loving a man or woman. I've studied your facial expressions, and gestures and tone. Every contour of your face embedded in my mind, that when something really funny happens I can close my eyes and imagine you with me. I feel like we have had some of our strongest moments when we have shared silence. Weather it was a fun time, or a sad time, silence has untited us in moments that will out last a life time of words. Sometimes its hard for me to find words that would comfort you, but even so when your heart aches mine does too. I always wonder what you are going through, how your day has been, what you are thinking, if you really like studing (lol). Friendship is even like having kids. We watch each other grow and want the best for each other. We get upset with each other if we fail, or make mistakes, but then we leave each other breathless in awe when we have excelled and succeed. My feelings for you are self-less, I have always wanted better for you then i have wanted for myself. I think i know why that is though, its because secretly we see eachother as super heros. Inside I really admire and look up to you. The hardest part for me was letting go, being okay with the individuals that we became. Cutting the leash and letting life's experiences ingulp us into the world that we wanted to protect each other from. God gave us something really special, and i would be damned if i ever threw that away. Thank you for letting me be your best friend.

by the way prune be head strong, the fiesty little palm tiger i know you to be, dont let people take advantage of you, beware of wearing your vulnrabilities on your sleve, mask them the best you know how. Your family and friends over here all love you, and are here if you are lonely. Focus on yourself, Ill be waiting, come back to me a strong independent woman.


First and for most

Today's song - Sara Bareilles-GRAVITY (2003) album: Careful Confessions

Recent Artists that beat to the rhythm of my heart (harmony):
Missy Higgins
Yael Naim
Ingrid Michaelson
A Fine Frenzy
Norah Jones
Etta James
Kate Nash
Corinne Bailey Rae
Lily Allen
John Mayer
Lauryn Hill
Jason Mraz
Amy Winehouse

Working with all males and being the only female has turned out to be almost the same exact as working with all females but instead of talking about things like shopping, and classes, I'm stuck listening to conversations about military, and guns. I don't mind at all actually i would rather learn a thing or two about things i really don't have a clue about. I mean i have gone shooting before, and i like it, but i cant say that i know much about guns. Actually it kinda took me off guard that just about all of my group members own a gun. I would have to say though, men and women are the exact same when it comes to bad mouthing on another. I have tried to stay neutral with the things i say about people. Honestly i see both sides of the story most of the time. For instance there is this one guy in our group that pretty aloof and immediately he comes off as if he doesn't care to most, but for some reason i can relate myself to him a lot more than the other people. An example, Guy A said I am going to love my job, it will never feel like something i don't want to do (or something like that, and to me I'm just like ahhhh someone that feels like me) when Guy B says A job will always just end up a job, its fun in the beginning and then it sucks. Realistically i guess but when you have so many choices in life why would you ever settle for something you don't enjoy doing. I think its hilarious how these "grown" men talk about each other. I haven't said anything that i didn't feel. At one point i felt really annoyed because i felt like i was being told what to do. I didn't appreciate being called on a Saturday night to do something right away. I didn't even appreciate feeling like i was being cornered. But through it all I never really said anything BAD about someone. I mean some of these MEN have ruthless things to say about each other, calling someone an idiot, is a very disrespectful thing to do. I honestly cant say that any of my group members are idiots, everyone has different views and i think each person has a story. I wouldn't bash someone because they are a dreamer, i am a dreamer too and i wouldn't bow down to anyone who has settled for a mundane life.

I always thought of myself as a pretty well rounded person. I mean for the most part, Ive been there and done that, except for drugs. I always feel like i am being cocky when i am giving advice to people. I don't know why but i feel really uncomfortable giving people advise even though i know that they would maybe appreciate it. I guess it saddens me to see people hurt, but then again its a cycle, after the hurt you come out the person that your meant to be, and that's how life works. Its beneficial to suffer emotionally to learn and mold into a better person, no advise can have the same affect then cause and effect of living life. It is what it is right?


mentally stimulated

I really wish photography was a part of my life much earlier than it had been. You know something really sad?? Looking through my MILLIONS of pictures, i feel like i don't have enough!! isn't that crazy!!! I mean i have only a little bit of good memories, where are all the others, i really need to start taking pictures everyday, no matter what, just take one. I am going to try better from now on.

By the way I need a place to write down all the mangas im reading before i forget so:
Dengki Daisy
Kimi ni todoke (manga and anime) (-^-) sooooo cute
Kyou, Koi wo Hajimemasu
Antique romance
Bokura ga ita
Strobe edge

And i think thats it for right now that i am reading

This week

This week has actually been a really good week. Ive been pretty happy and on top of things, i thought i was about to take a turn to the worst in the beginning but i ended up finishing up really strong. Need less to say, its only Wednesday but i haven't failed to attend any of my classes thus far, and i am actually really organized with my notes, and caught up with my homework.

Life recently has been only about studying, i am glad that i had a mini vacation to O.C.

I got a parking ticket last week that i still need to pay off. Zain continues to finish his applications and paper work, poor boy is working hard, but his hard work is making me more focused too.

Lets see, i cant say i really miss anyone these days, I've been rather selfish these past few days. and i cant seem to take my mind off of right here and right now. My friends annoy me to a point that i don't even know if i have "friends" I have a friend, and right now that's really good enough.

Things that are time consuming are usually not worth the time that you invest in them, the people closest to me have taught me that disappointment is always under the door mat even if you think it says "welcome home"

I'm really content, happy almost, breathing easy... easy like my fingers hitting the keys on this keyboard... life is easy, as easy as you make it. I would hate to say it, but my father is right the importance of family almost does out weigh school. My father and his out of this world philosophies are proving to be coming true in my vision, i should beware.

I miss my nephew, even though there isn't much to miss yet because he seems to be in a cycle of eating pooping and sleeping, i hate that i am missing moments that count. I hope that we get along, and he loves me like i love him. Wouldn't it be nice if we could all speak to each other honestly and openly, it would clear up so many misunderstandings. I've been aiming to do just that. Open mind, open mouth... I dont want people to misunderstand me anymore, so i am just going to speak my mind, say things as they are.

I am really too nice of a person, and I really dont know when i became that way. Perhaps its my unconcious desire to be accepted by everyone. I really dont think i do it intentionally. I feel like if there where more nice self-less people then life would be so much less stressful. I mean there have been so many times when i needed help and no one was willing to reach out. I know how that feels, so why would i want someone else to feel like that. I dont know, i know when people email me, hey i missed class, i reply back lol. I hope that they appreciate it.

Anyways, Mauhz!

Ps> there are two types of people in the world, those that are easily understood, and those that can never be understood because people are to closed minded to acknowledge that they are different then the majority. I wonder what makes society craze uniformity. Or is it the opposite but somewhere along the way we stop being true to ourselves? I really really wonder. How do elder people feel unrelatable to younger people? Wherent they at one time young too? I really dont get it. I really really dont. I thought we where all so similar, but we arent at all.



OMG, im so nervous!! :)
About to go present my thingy, hopefully i get lucky and i wont have to present till thursday :)

its morning

It is the morning, and i keep telling myself "I need to get a hold on my life." Seriously, i have no sense of direction or planning or anything. I keep falling into these loop holes, and its driving me insane. I dont really know what to do to stop being an emotional wreck and having these rollercoaster days but its really wearing me out. Sometimes i feel like having friends would solve my problem but i dont even think thats the case because adding more people into your life just makes more room for dissapointment. I feel really distant lately, i feel scared or something but im kind of unsure what i am affraid of. I really need to go pick up my bday presents so i can start structuring my days with the planner that poots got for me, damn you... who goes to the mundir early... (-_-) and even so, i was deff making the effort, i feel sad that you didnt meet me half way oh well. I plan to go see my sister on sunday for a day trip with zain. It will be Zains first time meeting baby aden, expect pictures lol. I really need to start developing these pictures and things, i can sense my computer taking its last breath any day now. If i lost all my work i think they would have to put me into a mental ward... its someting that i could never ever get over. i guess i should get packed up now and get ready to husstle at school. Be back at 11, i have lots of work to do today.

Oh did i tell you, im about to destroy my house, not literally but CLEAN OUT EVERYTHING throw out everything unnessesary and get a desk and dresser. Yeah thats my plan, actually i might steal the little table and chair that is sitting at my parents house right now, since they are never going to use it and its sitting in my old room collecting dust. I also plan to move a lot of my stuff back to my parents house, im just going to box eveything up nicely and put it away in the attic. I really need to de-cutter the place and its the only way i can have my piece of mind in that place. I plan on getting internet there too come next month, to do well this semester i aim to take drastic measures so i can be more serious about life like my partner in crime is. :) i hope that i can make you proud of me too like i am of you (jelous) haha jk, well my computer is weezing and running out of juice, 2 min till 8:30 i gotta head out to class, PEACE!


O.C. part2

IM IN THE O.C. MD today :) part1

Hey do you remember when it snowed??

i do...

things i should have uploaded but i was too lazy to


another good day to smile

I woke up this morning in a pleasant mood, as I laid on my stomach looking at the time on my phone, I though zain was shaking but as I laid there super still I realized that it was my own heart beating out of my chest, I smiled. I feel alive...
norah jones - come away with me



I wonder what the moon is smiling about tonight
I am smiling because i am crazy crazy crazy
crazy for you!


Happy Bday to Moi

So far ive been having a pretty good day. i cant say that i didnt cry today because i did haha. Actually reading the card that my mom sent me this morning made me really miss my parents and that made me a little emotional i wont lie. I started my bday off right though by talking to my mom before anyone else, and then talking to my other mom Michelle auny lol. I didnt have a huge bday wish turn out on fb or text message like i usually do, but thats okay, the people that count deff sent me lots of wishes and love. I have a really long day at school today and that kinda sucks but i think either way im happy with the way the day has turned out. Honestly i couldnt ask for a better bday, other than seeing my mom and dad today haha. Its okay though i plan to see my mom on friday anyways.

Today in my Communications class we are suppose to give a "presentation" and she is going to tape us. Odd, i don't think i feel nervous, and i probably would nail it if i had some drinks in me haha. Just kidding but really.

My eyeballs where freaking out this morning, and they where allergic to the sun this morning. I was tearing up a storm. I also had my first test of the semester this morning. Im confident i pulled a pretty decent grade. I cant say one way or another yet since i dont wanna jinx myself but yeah yeah :)

I'm really happy with all of the gifts i got this bday, zain is really starting to spoil me haha, and i couldn't ask for anything sweeter. I think he really is the love of my life... he takes such good care of me. I would be retarded not to love him for a lifetime and even more, hes like poison i tell you... He doesn't do much, but some of the smallest gestures that he makes are enough to last me a life time of smiles.

Ive come to realize that underneath it all i really am just a simple person. Although emotionally i go through so many ups and downs, at the end of the day i dont really have that many insecurities except those that my parents have made me feel. Insecurities like, not being ever excepted by them, or not ever doing anything good enough in life. I feel like sometimes they hold me back from the life that i know tht i can make for myself if i just had the support from them. Seriously though, other then that i really don't have insecurities in my relationship, like i don't care if Zain goes out and has a good time or what not. Im not scared that another girl would replace me or that he might find someone better because in my mind i think we are perfect. In a way i know we have many differences, but all the forces around me will always lead me to one answer and that answer will always be zain, and ill slowly learn and prove to all my doubts that zain is the one. Im happy

My OC teacher told me that people have facebook to stay in contact with the people that we dont wish to keep in personal contact with, and i totally disagree. I mean i dont know i dont usually add strangers to my facebook, nor do i reach out to them, i mean eventually if they are just sitting there ill go through and delete people that i never talk to. I only talk to a handful of CLOSE people on facebook and i use it to check up on the people i love so... i think i disagree but maybe thats because i am just that simple.



haha, its not my bday yet, but hey whatever, im already spoiled :)

I got a card from mom, and that made me really happy. Zain completely spoiled me too haha, i got Katamari one and two, and mini ninjas, and i got new gym pants, and a watch and some house shoes hehe :)

an angel was watching over me today too, i found $20 in the snow.

snow snow snow

No school today :) its snowing again... (-_-)

Seriously, I'm glad that i don't have to drive 35 min down to VCU to sit in a 50 min class, but then again, i hate the fact that its impossible to drive my car in the snow. Rear wheel drive is seriously not made for inclement weather, now if you wanna take off at a red light and feed everyone else a lot of dust then yep my cars AWESOME. Even though we dont have school today i am really hopping that the weather clears up by tonight so that i can meet up with the folks for my group project. I kind of feel like im being treated unfairly, like im being bossed around, but maybe thats because i am the youngest and the only female. I always found it easy to relate to guys and less comfortable working with females, so maybe thats why im taken back by the way i think i am being treated. Oh well, zain said that i should just say how i feel when i meet up with them, and then i guess i could just shut up and write whatever they want me to write... since all the work was technically landed in my hands. I think its pretty halarious that the two people that he (our group executive - NOT LEADER OR BOSS) has chosen to be his message distributers havent even touched the google doc that i have posted, nor have the replyed to any emails. One says that his internet is down, and i guess i wanted to call him out and say that there is a lab at school and internet 24-7 available, but hell whatever. And the other says that he hasnt gotten any of the emails, which i kinda feel like is bullshit too. It seems to me that all the darker skinned people in our group have no say so at all in the direction that our group is going but hell, that is about to change tonight when i see them. I really dont like being told what to do and then not asked my opinion.

OHHHH YEAHHHH, did i tell you guys that Zain got me Katamari on PS2 the original for my bday. HAHA i have been rolling katamaris all day jk. No but really i love making katamari and getting big enough to roll up people. Who wouldnt wanna make a star out of a whole bunch of junk laying around?

I really hope that the weather holds up for pootska on the weekend so that she can have a safe trip home, and she doesnt miss any classes. I am suppose to see her on friday, i hope that is possible. Seeing the snow blowing all over the place it seems pretty distant.


I only feel like a female when i feel like i am discriminated against...

I am not to sure if its just me, but i feel like out group project has become a sort of dictatorship, and i am kinda offended because i wasn't asked for my opinion. That's all i am going to say about that though.

Todays been an okay day, i didn't do too too much, but i did go to the gym, and something is seriously wrong with my legs... I also went to my classes, i have a test on my bday. GRAND

I went to walmart and the lady bagging my stuff was a real idiot.

OMG they have this really weird show on VH1 with guys who are drag queens... its really really entertaining... I really have no life haha... i was so anti TV, and now that Zain got this big ass tv, i can just sit here watch tv and get my work done at the same time. I hope that i have a productive day tomorrow. I got a lot of good food, and now that i think about it, i totally forgot to buy some eggs.


"Next life time"... What does that even mean?

What does that even mean?? In the next life time...

Maybe its just me, but umm i don't plan on coming back. I have so much time in this lifetime to live a fulfilled life so why wouldn't i just do what i want to do now? hmm anyways, maybe im just selfish and self centered but theres no way ima figure myself out by putting ristrictions on my life.

I really really hope that i can get this group project out of the way and done before we meet tomorrow. Tomorrow is probably the only day that i can do anything for my bday... hmm damn you feburary 2010.


nc :)


weekend in nc


Lyrics that sum up 75% of how i feel in life

Im stealing this from mina-lo this morning, because i googled the lyrics and its so applicable...

You don't know me, you don't even care, oh yeah,
She said
You don't know me, and you don't wear my chains... oh yeah,

She said I think I'll go to Boston...
I think I'll start a new life,
I think I'll start it over, where no one knows my name,
I'll get out of California, I'm tired of the weather,
I think I'll get a lover and fly him out to Spain...
I think I'll go to Boston,
I think that I'm just tired
I think I need a new town, to leave this all behind...
I think I need a sunrise, I'm tired of the sunset,
I hear it's nice in the Summer, some snow would be nice... oh yeah
Augustana- Boston

stood up

This weekend is something i am looking forward to. Yesterday i got to see prooottttsssskkkaaaa!! :)

I guess since all else failed, lol just kidding, im going to NC to see my sister. Honestly i cant really sit here and decode peoples riddles so, im just gonna do what i wanna do. I am so pumped to see baby aden and spend more time with prune and mom and dee and george. I kinda dont believe that the weather is going to be nearly as bad as people say, but i guess only the skys know. The weathers been pretty bad, and the parking here at VCU still is impossible. Youd think that they would have cleaned that up by now. I had a pretty decent day today, getting my self together and deciding what i need to do with the immediate future. I really just want to keep things simple, so i am just going to do everything on my own with out the help of others. I cant really complain about anything because ive only gotten what i have put in so i think i can settle to say we are even. I was looking at the p90x nutrition plan today, since i started eating meat again, i can definitely do it, if i just pre cook on sunday nights and have everything ready to go for the week. So i think my plan is to implement a good diet to what i am already doing and i am bound for success. I love how i have to remind my self daily of the things that id like to accomplish. Oh well i would rather just hop on a plane to somewhere secluded and forget EVERYTHING but i mean i guess i have to be realistic.

I think that ive found a new good friend. And she lives here in Richmond, soo that is kinda exciting for me. Abby talked to me on FB again today, and i like that she is keeping in touch. I think that me and her have a lot in common so its really easy for us to just click. I really hope her complications with Steve don't make mine and her relationship complicated as well. I really just wanna be friends.

I have to do a group thing again today for my 5:30 class, joy... I really still dont understand what we are doing for it, but then again i really dont know what we are going to be tested on in that class either. As far as im concerned im sure im not the only person completely clueless.

Okay so i guess im over and out :)


im probably an emotional train wreck today, ive been nervous over nothing all day. I cant seem to figure out what my problem is, but i really need to get it together i think. I had Classes today, oh yeah, it snowed all weekend, hence my MIA-ness. Me and Zain finished playing God of War I and II. I guess now we have nothing to day haha, I really want Katamari, and mini ninjas lol. They totally kick butt and i want em. My bday is coming up... and i dont really know what i want to do, let alone, im not even sure if i want to see anyone. I think i am going hermit again i dont know, i want to escape my situation but i dont even know what my situation is.
Today in class, I guess we had to come up with this orginization, fundraiser volunteeing thing, we came up with collecting cans, and mind you i think it was a half assed choice. Whatever though, i honestly wanted to be that one person when they asked is anyone against it to be like YAY! haha they would have totally hated me for that right!? I almost ended up in a group with all females, and i guess i wanted to make it through the semester with out wanting to shoot myself to i opted out really quickly of the marketing group... I might be good at making art, but i would say im well rounded enough to challenge my self just a little bit. I miss home, and i dont wanna regret not seeing my dad before he goes to india so i am making a day trip home.

I also drew a picture today, and im pretty impressed even though it looks gay haha. I honestly want to get really good at everything that i am already kinda good at, so i am gonna make a revalation. I totally missed my japanese class work this, well last week :/ the snow totally messed me up... gome-na-sai!!

groundhogs day

The Highlight of my day :) you gotta love that!!


White as Snow - Happy Feburary!

Snow Days :)


education really is inspiring me


my kisses are blinding baby

happy anniversary honey bob :) mauhz

Some one Remind me, ahhhh!

Sometimes i really wonder why i am writing blog entries, and when i think about it its really gay that i even do this. But then im like, well i do it for my self, so that when time passes by i can look back on this and be like oh this is what i was thinking and feeling at this point in time. And then i think about it an im like well i do it for the people that care. The people that i cant talk to everyday, the people that are like me and can share a common interest with what im saying and feeling. And then i think more into it and i do it because sometimes im better at writing things then saying them. And sometimes i write things that i should never work to someone, so just write them and its easier. I think i really do find an easy escape with writing down my thoughts, and its easy. Most of the time i have to think about it, like OHHHH what am i gonna blog about today... boo this is so lame, but lately ive been finding a lot of optimism tucked under my pillow, and that makes this whole writing thing SOOOO easy. I still have off days, and im sure everyone does its human nature right? but i seriously feel like this year is going to be the make it year for me, in a sense that a lot of things will be turned around for me.

I know that because early this year i already broke A LOT of bad habits. I learned to except things and be okay with a lot of things that have turned out to be different then what i expected. Reconciling with those feelings and thoughts have really been almost a sort of enlightenment for me. Being able to say "its okay" and really matching my inside with whats coming out has been a break through with moving on to better things in life. I'm genuinely happy with what i dont have evenly with what i do have. Its really reassuring. I think half of it is just voicing it all to zain even if i feel like he wouldn't understand, he does, and when i say it right it makes me feel confident with things being just the way they are and I can settle with reality. Im looking forward to the future, and see myself and the people around me equally happy, and to me this is the best motivation to wake up to every morning till that time comes.

Im going to try to keep up with my happy go lucky attitude (that is until someone pisses me off) but till then im definitely delighted to be optimistic!


class class class

im totally feeling good about classes this semester, did i already mention that??

The only real class that i am worried about is stats, but im sure i can manage since we dont have shit loads of homework.

i miss the mutt


traffic seems to be my new morning buddy



Eww i took NO EXPLOD on Sunday before the gym and i felt like jello, mind you i didnt sleep that night and it made me wanna throw up!! :/
no more N.O. for me!!

Work outs are going well, im able to run for 30 min straight now, so thats promising, gonna try me best to keep pushing through, im slowly starting p90 back up, hopefully i can stay strong and stop getting discouraged by not being able to get through a whole video. I can hear it wispering though that my time to succeed is inching up really really slowly :) and that makes me happy.

I miss Aden Raj and his mommy and daddy.

My parents are going to india, thank god!


The new Gym and working out

Me and Zain finally got the chance to go to the new gym today. I must say i am pretty impressed. They have like 4 pools and plenty of machines, indoor everything you could think of, and an indoor rock climbing thing. I went for a little but and i think i am pretty proud to say that i am slowly but surly meeting my goals :)

Other then that classes have been good, pretty laid back so far. I figure if i can stay focused in class and do my homework the same day that i get it while everything is fresh in my head i should do fine this semester. After my adviser pretty much called me incapable of being smart enough im convinced to show her that isnt the case. I really just am not motivated. But i think i have decided to just look at it as an accomplishment more than anything. Its not really a complete waste, this is just something that i can do, and then get out of and say yeah i did college. So i guess thats where i am with all this right now and i think i am good with that. content really.

Lately my hip has been really hurting but i guess its okay. Zain says i just need to stretch but i think im convinced that since my legs arent the same length or whatever i was suppose to get corrected when i was younger is coming back to haunt me. I cant believe im stuck at school today till 10pm.

Alright well over and out i need to find something that will occupy me for the next hour since my next class is at 5:30.


All the things yall missed! :)

Skiing & Snowboarding
Wintergreen Resort, VA

my japanese classes

Okay so these classes that i am taking on manga bullet are totally awsome!!

I just wanna take some time out to thank the Japanese Language Club founders and helpers!! What you guys are providing for the public is really an amazing thing!!

I feel like i am really a part of something and that makes me feel really happy and special!!

I think its so sad how my japanese handwriting looks neater then my english.. wtf!?

okay so...

so a lot has happened since the last time I blogged, crazy because it's only been two weeks past since but for a quick synopsis of what's happened:
1. Me and zain went snowboarding and skiing
2. I decided I'll graduate with the minimums and get outta here
3. I am keeping up with my work outs
4. Timir's getting married (o_o) totally took me by surprise!
5. I finally got the balls to get outta bed and meet my adviser
6. My life plan is coming together beautifully
7. Me and zain went to bells island with Sarah and Ryan
8. I got really good vitamins from the vitamin shoppe
9. I got black touch up paint for my car finally...
10. I was called all the way home for one day to deliver mangoes wtf
11. I finished playing drakes adventures, and assassins creed
12.I bought a wii
13. Aden raj got to stream live on web cam to Poland and Detroit
14. I finally decided I may as well come 110% clean with my mom and dad about zain because he is the person that I want to be with for the rest of my life (^_^)
15. I am learning Japanese on www.mangabullet.com all on my own and I'm pumped about it lol
16. Me and zain have been having good days together lately, but he punched me in my sleep (it was an accident) :)
17. I got a 87.7 in my intersession marketing class
18. I finally gave up my blackberry and all the pictures and contacts up to my dad :/
19. (-3*) im only taking 12 credit hours, so i have no excuse but to do good, and she said i can graduate next year spring 2011, not bad im just a year off. but im going to email her and ask her if i HAVE to do a major like she was talking about or if i could just do a business foundation and call it fucking day.
20. I am reading a new manga well 3 new mangas.

yep when I think about it it's been a pretty productive last two weeks. All righty then, i think i might go to the new vcu gym today to check it out, i haven't decided yet but we will see. I'm super hungry and yeah.

My classes are as followed
Monday - 9:00-9:50am
Tuesday- 9:30- 10:45am, 5:30- 6:45pm
Wednesday - 9:00- 9:50am
Thursday- 9:30-10:45am, 5:30- 6:45pm, 7:00- 9:40pm
Friday- 9:00- 9:50am


thank god!

So the little guys finally at home, and honestly i feel pretty bad for my sister. It sucks that she is the eldest, and i thank god that by the time its my turn to get married and have kids its going to be OLD news (to my parent anyways). I don't feel left out though because ill be getting that same treatment from zains family since he is the eldest. Anyways hes just been home for a couple hours and bhavnas already here with her stank ass family talking all loud and annoying the dog... Im highly annoyed and don't understand why my parents are showing him off like some sort of trophy, i guess in a way in not surprised they do that with the poor dog too. I really don't understand how all these unhealthy people have all these diagnosis for my sister. Eating Ghee and flour IS NOT going help your body bounce back AT ALL. If i eat bad even one day i feel like crap all day... I gotta have my salad and fruits and shit i don't know it is what it is. Eat healthy feel healthy recovery quickly. Damn that woman and her laugh...

Im seriously ready to go back to Richmond, im tired of everyone barking out commands to me. I cant even eat a meal with out someone telling me to get up and do my next task. I mean seriously can i eat and breath for a little. I really just want to go jogging its all i can even think about. My parents are so annoying, i hope i live far away from here when i have a kid. I dont know why i like to isolate my self, honestly but maybe its because i know that people treat me differently then they treat my sister. Id much rather do it my way, and i hate all the false accusations and bullshit they throw at me even though im not doing anything. I miss zain and i just wanna sit there and cry to him, i dont know why i feel so depressed but i just wanna be away from here. I really wish he would have come by to say hello.

I cant even go to the fucking gym without people asking me a hundred and twenty questions I'm so fucking annoyed. I cant even eat when im hungry because there is no fucking room in the refrigerator for my food because its filled with 2 month old left overs. I really dont get my mom and her backward ways. She pushes ALL the work onto other people and my dad wants someone else to suffer when he has to do something. I dont understand why EVERY single task in this house to be shared, why everyone cant just do their own work. I just dont get it at all. Im completely frustrated, i don't wanna hear from anyone, i just wanna turn my phone off lay back and forget it all... i think im actually starting to regret a lot of things

My baby Nephew is going to be a handsome little fella. I already feel sorry for him, but hell... maybe he will love them more than he loves me and our personalities will completely clash, who knows... i guess i should just keep my hopes up and just give him the best gifts of all, memories.


Baby Aden Raj Khan